About AlanStives

AlanStives is divorced and is seeking females for friendship.

A solid guy with a soft heart .
Done a lot of things and traveled to many places .
Looked into strangers eyes and been treated with kindness .
A few lucky scrapes I must admit .
I am Christian but Bhudist in many ways .
My next bucket list is to stay off grid for a one or two nights on a forested mountain side overlooking the ocean .
Just me and my one other .
No tech
Basic food .Wood burner in a cabin and the silence .
I want to sit quiet and share the silence of sunset ,cook and eat simple food ,listen to the noises of nothing and marvel at the stars .
Rest with my lady in the night and awake just before dawn and watch the end of night bring the sunrise and a new day .
Then kiss her and make breakfast together .
Xx

What do you like most about where you currently live?

I know it well .I have friends here .
The land is flat and we have sunrise to sunset big sky

What do you enjoy most about your current job?

I am retired but run a small holiday business .
I enjoy helping people have great holidays .

What are your favourite leisure activities?

Cycling walking and driving through beutiful countryside .

Where in the world are your favourite places?

Iceland ,Oregon USA ,Bali ,Hawaii ,U.K Wiltshire .

Where in the world would you love to visit?

The poles .North and South .
Then maybe NZ

What would you do on an ideal date?

Discover an amazing soul that needs my soul to be happy .

What are you looking for in a partner?

Trust, support and deep friendship

What makes a good relationship?

Two people in harmony .

What makes you laugh?

Delicious wit and spontaneous repartee

What music do you like?

Slow music that helps me feel the breeze or opens my eyes to the stars

What has been the highlight of your life so far?

Life itself so far?
It’s had its ups and downs but more ups than downs

What are you looking forward to in the future?

The future itself .
The past is done and I can reflect on it .

What is the most beautiful view you can see?

The view right in front of me right now .