About backhereagainwhy

backhereagainwhy is divorced and is seeking females for friendship or a casual relationship.

Newly Updated

Time to reflect and reanalyse what I may be seeking, but first a little about me to begin.

Start afresh me thinks might have been a bit cautious previously.
So where do we begin male single with 2 kids from previous relationships. Has been divorced some time 2012 but I class that as being single trying to get out of bad habits ( no drinking/drugs issues)
Why am I here to be honest sick of my own company which I'm partially to blame for. So let's say hear to make new friends to enjoy the company of another need someone to bounce off put a smile on my face. No arrrhs or sympathy, please being serious here.
I will admit I'm no saint I am flawed but who isn't. I'm not looking for perfection but simply who'll make me smile and be content and obviously have a laugh together even put a smile on my cracked face. That was a joke the cracked face. I'm a middle-aged man so I'm no Adonis and not looking for a supermodel too old for that.
It would be ideal if you were local near Hemel not looking for a long distance relationship ( they don't work, unfortunately). Not looking for a younger woman who'd I'd have nothing in common someone between 39 - 54 would be ideal (sorry wasn't making a wish list old habits )
Happy to meet over a drink chat laugh grimace at each other's bad sense of humour (or secretly ill be taking notes from yourself) lol
Not interested in the meet me option I see this as a complete waste of your time and my time rather start with a chat to break the waters as they say
and no random offers of ONS bit old for that I think it never goes down well looking for something pleasant and easy good company obviously

What are your favourite leisure activities?

tinker with quadcopters which I find relaxing in my time
Listening to Music
Watching Movies

Where in the world are your favourite places?

Ireland although haven't been there in an age where family is.
Not Really the sun worshipper

Where in the world would you love to visit?

Iceland just the vastness of it

What would you do on an ideal date?

just a casual drink and a laugh where we can talk

What are you looking for in a partner?

patience humility and funny compassionate

What makes a good relationship?

well if we all had that answer we wouldn;t be here.
I suppose it has to be a mutual comfortability with one another

What makes you laugh?

Comedy comedy movies standup

What music do you like?

all types from u2 to Stevie Wonder

What has been the highlight of your life so far?

my son he surprises me still

What are you looking forward to in the future?

stability bit more happy to enjoy life to settle with someone who's happy with me for who I am