About Commlady49

Commlady49's relationship status wasn't listed as an option and is seeking males for friendship or a serious relationship.

Hi there I’m a 49 year old lady from Cheshire who has blonde hair, blue eyes and a curvy/plus size figure. I work four days a week and have a grown up daughter. I do drive and am happy to travel.

I don’t have a photo because I was stalked for 3 months on another site and I’m terrified of him finding me but I am a genuine loving lady and am happy to share photos privately.

I really want to meet a man who wants a normal loving relationship, knows how to treat a lady, knows what he wants and doesn’t keep changing his mind as it’s cruel and unfair as we are adults after all. I say this because I have chatted to and been on dates with men I have liked for them to tell me down the line that they just want fun and I have got hurt.

I want someone who wants a loving lady in his life and will make me feel special, wanted and important and is prepared to share the travel and expense, not expect me to make all the effort.

I also want someone who wants to spend lots of time together, I’m not looking for a friend or pen pal, I want to be with someone for real and have a loving honest relationship and everything that offers. I’m not into games I’m a genuine lady looking to get my life back on track with someone special x

What do you like most about where you currently live?

Quiet and pretty, close to the M6 motorway, lovely houses, low crime.

What do you enjoy most about your current job?

I’m a contractor which gives me more freedom and I get to meet lots of new people and learn new skills and industries.

What are your favourite leisure activities?

Going to the cinema, theatre and concerts, cooking, reading, DIY, interior design, eating out, drinking cocktails, shopping, Also love going for days out, on holiday and for weekends away.

Where in the world are your favourite places?

Turkey
Disneyland Paris
Center Parcs
North Wales

Where in the world would you love to visit?

Malaysia
New York
Lapland
Canada

What would you do on an ideal date?

My ideal date would be either a romantic meal and cocktails or a barbecue on the beach somewhere which ends preferably with a kiss and cuddle. I do not want a one night stand, casual relationship for fun, friends with benefits etc as I have more respect for myself than to be used like that. I’m looking for a relationship and long term partner. If you’re not I’m not the woman for you so please move on.

What are you looking for in a partner?

I honestly don’t believe I will meet my ideal partner now as I have been trying for over a year and men that i connect with, care about and find attractive just enjoy lying to me and hurting me which is cruel. I couldn’t talk to someone for months and talk about a future together and then just block them without any explanation but someone I really cared about did that to me and I honestly don’t know who to trust anymore. I’m also more than a sex object so please don’t keep badgering me for naked photos and videos because I’m not doing it simple. If you are a decent man you will wait until we are together and the time is right.

I really want to meet a man who knows how to treat a lady, knows what he wants and doesn’t keep changing his mind as it’s cruel and unfair as we are adults after all.

I want someone who wants a loving lady in his life and will make me feel special, wanted and important and is prepared to share the travel and expense, not expect me to make all the effort. I was chatting to someone for a while, we agreed to go on a date and he expected me to message him all the time and when I asked why he couldn’t message me I was told he doesn’t know why I am so needy and to leave him alone so I did! If you can’t be bothered to message me find someone else!

I also need someone who wants to spend lots of time together, I’m not looking for a friend or pen pal, I want to be with someone for real and have a loving honest relationship and everything that offers. I’m not into games I’m a genuine lady looking to get my life back on track

I love men with facial hair
Honest.
Loving
Romantic
Passionate
Loyal
Respectful
Sense of humour but not sarcastic
Not moody and open to talk and listen
Not a game player
Someone who wants me in his life and wants to focus on me and not see other people
Someone who doesn’t make me feel guilty for needing attention and affection
Someone who
I am looking for someone aged 45+. I’m sorry but please don’t message me if you’re any younger.

What makes a good relationship?

I have realised from online dating that there are a lot of players online and that you’re only good enough until someone better comes along and then you get ignored or blocked . Men lie about what they want and it’s not fair as nice, decent ladies get hurt. If you want fun say that from the start, don’t pretend you want a relationship when you don’t!

These things are also important to me:-

Acting like an adult
Communication is key.
Always showing love and affection for each other.
Honesty.
Respect.
Putting each other first.
Spoiling each other.
Not playing games and seeing other people or chatting romantically to other people and lying about it!
Not using people to boost your ego
Not telling them lies
Not hurting them
Respecting people’s boundaries and not pressuring them to do things they don’t want to do
Try and emotionally blackmail someone into doing something they don’t want to do because you know they care about you
Not being controlling, bullying or narcissistic

What makes you laugh?

Good jokes
Comedy on tv like the royal family
Peter Kay
Mrs Doubtfire

What music do you like?

80s, 90s, love songs, soul, some rock

What has been the highlight of your life so far?

Having my daughter and seeing her grow into a beautiful young lady with her own business.

What are you looking forward to in the future?

My dream is to have a life again and a new loving relationship with fun dates, weekends away together, holidays, cosy nights in and closeness and passion. Do i think this will happen? Sadly not but i live in hope!