About Ian50

Ian50 is divorced and is seeking females for friendship or a casual relationship or a serious relationship.

What do you like most about where you currently live?

It’s peaceful and quiet and I like the other people, it’s stress-free. I don’t like drama or shouting and where I live doesn’t have any of that, well only when my kids come to visit!

I would like to get a dog, Not sure though as there would be no one to look after him or her when I go anywhere, so my thinking is maybe not such a good idea.

I have lots of male friends, but all the same, I’m quite content and happy with my own company, I am in no rush but would like to meet someone special to share things with, as nothing is ever as good when you don’t have someone to share it with.

What do you enjoy most about your current job?

No two days are the same and I love the challenges it brings

What are your favourite leisure activities?

I enjoy going to the pub and watching football with a cold beer, but I equally enjoy simple things like sitting at the top of the high street and watching people go by, great fun just studying people! How they dress, how they walk! Are they confident or self-aware! Are they happy or miserable?

I enjoy being with my children and seeing their different personalities, Just being with them and around them while they grow up.

Where in the world are your favourite places?

My favorite place is Barbados, I remember it for a few different reasons 1, because the people are so welcoming and friendly, 2, the island is quite beautiful and exotic 3, the cultured waterfront destinations are like being in a bond movie.

Where in the world would you love to visit?

I would like to visit the river Rhine in Germany, I’ve been to Germany many times but never for pleasure, I’m sure it would be no big deal and quite boring, no doubt aimed at the senior citizen! but it was my mother’s favorite place. She used to go there and enjoy a simple European river cruise, so for her, I would like to stop by and experience everything that she did, then back on the plane and on my way to Las Vegas! maybe.

What would you do on an ideal date?

Depends on my date really, so I would be happy with whatever she wanted to do, I can easily fit in with anything, but If I am assuming responsibility and if I am assuming her profile picture isn’t 20 years out of date, it would be nice to go on a date like it used to be !! like meeting somewhere in the town, followed by a leisurely stroll with some easy conversation to the chosen pub for a few drinks and a get to know you session to see if we click.

What are you looking for in a partner?

Well, she got to have something about her and be nice looking to my eyes, sense of humor is a must, and must be able to laugh at herself! Be honest and have integrity and want to make our relationship a special one

Be kind to other people and not be too materialistic, a little bit is ok,! Not looking for a maid or a cook so doesn’t matter if she can’t use the kitchen very well, neither can I !!

What makes a good relationship?

Accepting what other people think is not necessarily wrong, it's just not the way you think

What makes you laugh?

People who act really serious, responsible and grown-up then go and trip up over something really simple, but try to make our it didn’t happen, but the embarrassment is killing them, not as funny when it’s typed out! but I am sure you have seen this happen.

What music do you like?

Well not sure I should own up and say but...U2 in the day, seen them a few times, I like the eagles, I like things like James, Elvis Costello and Bruce Springsteen., oh and can’t forget kings of Leon, some of the best songs Ever and possibly my favorite album is Bob Sagar all one the one album - greatest hits

What has been the highlight of your life so far?

That's an easy one, it is having my children, I have 3 beautiful cheeky girls who love their dad, They think I'm the bravest, toughest dad ever. 2nd thing is related to the first one as to why they think I’m the toughest dad, a little bit Cryptic !!! I would have to know you a little bit to explain!!

What are you looking forward to in the future?

Well, I should say my children, watching them growing up, getting married or having children of their own and just being there to watch them experience life, but I guess I am really looking forward to what comes next! hopefully, it is meeting someone to share it with.

Do you get emotional easily and what can make you emotional ?

Well let me see... right so from the off I should explain that no one would ever describe me as a mummy’s boy, neither would they describe me as a bit wet or mard or any other variation of this word. At the same time, I’m no fighter or tough guy, but what really hits the spot for me to make me emotional and can easily put a lump in my throat is when I see a genuine random act of kindness, especially when the person giving it is not aware they are being watched.