About Leahcar

Leahcar is widowed and is seeking males for friendship or a casual relationship.

No longer hiding or apologizing for my multidimensionality, my spiritual gifts, my ability to see the unseen, or anything else that makes the overly logical uncomfortable. If being attuned to the forces of the universe makes me weird to you, feel free to exit stage left.

It turns out that I have a feisty attitude. Some people don't like my attitude. That's fine. I shan't be toning it down to appease anyone.
Nor will I be watering down my truth to make it easier for you to swallow. If you can't swim don't go to the deep end.

I am a quirky, curious, smart arse.
I wish to find someone to laugh and dance with.
Quietly confident yet socially awkward.

Thank you for taking the time to browse my profile.
I am not rude or stuck up. I don't want to open many 'go nowhere' conversations.

In reply to 99% of messages

If you wink. My reply is 😉
You say Hi. I reply, "Hello."
How am I? Fabulous, obviously. 😇
What am I up to? Everything I shouldn't be. I have been left unsupervised. 🤔
Married men. No. I have bunny boiler tendencies. 😭
Spontaneous romantic meet ups. No, I have bunny boiler tendencies. 🫣
Whats my problem - Your neediness, get out of the playground. 🤭
Happy hunting. x

The no, in no answer. Is in itself the only answer I need.

When we realize that love is not something we give or get from others. - But the very essence of our own being. - Only then, do we stop seeking to monopolize, limit or control it in other's. 🖤

Never trade your authenticity for approval.

If you have read my profile and then message me with hi,
are you expecting me to reply?
If so, you didn't read my profile. Or do you think somehow your hi is going to stand out as interesting and grab my attention.
Question, would you approach a person and say just, hi?
If after saying, hi several times, with no reply. You are offended and then insult me and then block me. That shows me I was correct to not reply in the first place.