About mysteriosa

mysteriosa is divorced and is seeking males for friendship.

Hello,

I’m just here to make friends online (not FWB) and for the forums. My health is not great - ME and fibromyalgia. I look ok but often feel unwell. I find it hard to keep up with people walking any distance or standing for long periods (I get faint). People tend not to understand this and I’ve just got fed up of explaining and of expectations, hence not dating.

PLEASE, NO-ONE UNDER 50 or any smokers or Covid deniers. I will not see your message if you are under 50 as I have a filter on the mail, so please don’t waste your time.

If you are a kind, intelligent guy (maybe an artist/ musician/ creative/ academic) it would be nice to hear from you.

I am a thinker - reflective, not fluffy headed and impulsive. I have worked with scientists and clinicians. I have a strange mixture of an arts and science background.

I’m a caring person, thoughtful and considerate. I’m also a good listener though it is nice to find someone who listens too! I’m warm and affectionate with people I know well but I don’t flirt with strangers on the internet.

I love all kinds of music and play guitar. I also enjoy arts and crafts. I am currently studying to be a hypnotherapist: it is a truly fascinating area to study and I know it can really help people.

No smokers, hunters, fishermen, or anyone with fetishes (there are dedicated sites for that).

I do not swap photos.

Well that's the boring stuff about me, now it is time to get to know you :)

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What do you like most about where you currently live?

It's a fine city. It has the advantages of a city and yet you can still bump into people you know on the market.

What do you enjoy most about your current job?

I'm retired but I enjoyed working in admin in education and doing proofreading and copy editing

What are your favourite leisure activities?

Music, playing guitar, art, reading, browsing the internet, sudoku, cooking, crafts.

Where in the world are your favourite places?

France, the Yorkshire moors, Cornwall, wilderness generally

Where in the world would you love to visit?

Paris, Aix-en-Provence, Amsterdam, Venice, Florence, Amalfi coast, Ireland, Canada, and lots of places in the USA.

What would you do on an ideal date?

Have fun, feel comfortable with him and be excited at the thought of meeting again.

What are you looking for in a partner?

A very intelligent man. Someone warm and loving who likes me as I am. A mature man who can deal with different situations in a wise and rational way.

What makes a good relationship?

Interesting conversation, a happy atmosphere, mutual understanding and support.

What makes you laugh?

The things people say spontaneously.

What music do you like?

Anything with good guitar players or a nice melody. Original, roots music. Rock, Folk and World Music. Blues, some Jazz. All sorts really.

What has been the highlight of your life so far?

Three years at university meeting lots of wonderful people and enjoying the world of ideas. Learning guitar. My two children and my family. The joy of three wonderful sisters (one now sadly gone). The internet - a fantastic development. Interesting stuff to read. Many fascinating colleagues. Lots of wonderful folk musicians. Visits to interesting places.

What do you like about folk music?

Some incredible amateur musicians, songs with feeling, being part of an ancient story-telling tradition, the surprising contributions, the cameraderie, the lack of ego, the dancers, and lots of fun!