About onceover

onceover is divorced and is seeking females for friendship or a casual relationship.

I'm here to meet and date and see what happens. I personally don't believe you can set out with a fixed idea of how a relationship will develop, so if we meet I have an open mind about what happens next - no expectations. Hopefully you will too.

I live alone, have done for many years, and not looking to change that. I am not one to be 'joined at the hip'; I like my independence and freedom, which doesn't seem to suit most women, even at this stage in life.

I opted out of the rat race of working in central London a while back. Almost fully retired now, which is great - it means I have more time for the fun things in life.

Like Hyacinth I do my best to keep up appearances, unlike many men of my age it would seem. I'm tall, slim but not skinny, athletic, confident, intelligent, easy-going, articulate, charming ... ... well, I try my best! And modest too? Friendly, out-going, and pretty laid back about life.

I find a warm, quick-witted and intelligent woman who takes care of herself usually makes my pulse race, but as we all know, there is no substitute for that elusive chemistry, when the 'shopping list' can go out of the window. But should you appeal to my eyes, my ears, my mind ... you could be truly scrumptious!