About TamTamBamalam

TamTamBamalam is separated and is seeking males for a serious relationship.

PLUS SIZE 18/20 so if chub ain't for you move on.

It's important that a potential partner lives within 10 miles of Halifax unless I can see from you're profile we clearly have a lot in common.

MUST BE A FELLOW METALHEAD and i dont mean rock or soft metal such as Metallica, Iron maiden etc if you know you know.

No profile pic puts me right off.

I like proper dates, it shows an actual interest, none of these coffee dates or "ile drop round yours etc" if we've not met i won't be going to you're house and you won't be coming to mine, I wont get in a car with a man I don't know either.

I'm not after casual or one night stands, as Daniel Sloss says I want to find the missing piece to my jigsaw puzzle, I wont be in a relationship for the sake of it or just settle for what I can get, I know what I want and if I have to wait for that or it never turns up that's not an issue for me as I love my own space and company. I'm very happy single but if that one I'm meant to be with is out there to add to my happiness then ile welcome him.

What do you like most about where you currently live?

The views and accessibility to countryside and town, its a pleasant and quiet area.

What do you enjoy most about your current job?

It's a new job so plenty to learn.

What are your favourite leisure activities?

Cinema and generally pottering around at home and on walks.

Where in the world are your favourite places?

Cayton Bay and Northumberland.

Where in the world would you love to visit?

Canada, New Zealand, Iceland, Italy or any Scandinavian countries.

What would you do on an ideal date?

Have a meal and drinks and maybe something fun like crazy golf.

What are you looking for in a partner?

Honest, reliable, genuine, leadership, responsible, independant, protective, decisive, I'd like someone that can have fun but knows when to be an adult.

What makes a good relationship?

Honesty and trust, to look after each other and have each others backs, able to have a calm adult discussion when things get tough.

What makes you laugh?

When someone can be daft and not afraid to take the mick out themselves. Lee Evans, yes that's my level of comedy haha.

What music do you like?

Metal, Emo, Punk, Rock, Soul. I do go to a lot of metal gigs and would like someone who is into the scene as well.

What has been the highlight of your life so far?

Having my 2 boys, age 5&2, soon to be 6&3, they are my family and they already have a dad so I'm not looking for another dad for them but the right person who can eventually become their friend.

What are you looking forward to in the future?

Going away more often.

Whats you're dealbreaker?

Nails....long nails or any but of nail makes me absaloutly cringe, it's like a phobia, I just can't deal with it.