About TheEssexman

TheEssexman is divorced and is seeking females for a casual relationship or a serious relationship.

I'm looking for a good woman who I won't mess around,was loyal for 26yrs.I've always worked hard {inc at home},love the simple things in life.Please feel free to message and ask anything -thanks.

What do you like most about where you currently live?

Conventient.I travel far and wide for my work but mainly in London so where I am suits me fine.

What do you enjoy most about your current job?

Home time.I've been doing my job for 37 yrs,I meet lots of different types of people from the most poor to the rich and famous.Biggest thing i've learnt by far is not to judge a book by it's cover,i've met all kinds from all walks of life.

What are your favourite leisure activities?

Fishing when I get the time,it's not just about the fishing it's also about the nature side it can be just just as nice in the summer as the winter.

Where in the world are your favourite places?

I've never lived abroad so it's not like i've ever really experienced living anywhere else.Been to various European places for holidays.

Where in the world would you love to visit?

It's hard to say any one place but there are many places,i'm a sun person at best so it would have to be somewhere warm.

What would you do on an ideal date?

It really wouldn't matter and I would let the lady choose,the company is what's most important not the surroundings.

What are you looking for in a partner?

A nice all round girl,someone who's honest,don't have to be a stunner or have an hour glass figure but just a genuine female who has a kind nature.

What makes a good relationship?

Honesty.I'd really prefer a woman to be honest,tell me straight what you expect,don't hold back that's quite important to me,i'd much prefer a women tell me what she's really thinking than what she thinks I want to hear.

What makes you laugh?

Lots of things mainly dry sense of humour.

What music do you like?

Many different types from way back to modern.

What has been the highlight of your life so far?

My two girls.I have one that still lives with me and like everyone we have our moments but I love them both to bits.

What are you looking forward to in the future?

A good woman who like the simple things in life,hopefully someone to share things with even just a walk along the sea front.

Are you by nature a gentleman.

Yes,always give up a seat for pregnant women , let a lady go first and open doors for women etc...and if I can help someone I will.